Psychic Advice : : CHARACTERISTICS OF TWIN SOULS Free Weekly Syndicated. Advice Columns. Published Every Wednesday Afternoon (PST)Question: . Please can you tell me about twin soul relationships? From what I know this is a different kind of soul relationship. I believe that I have met my twin soul. Although the feelings are similar, there are distinct differences. A twin soul is a type of soulmate, but there are characteristics of twin souls that are much deeper and more intense than a typical soulmate relationship. Soul mates are part of your soul group or your soul family, and there can be many of them incarnate on Earth at the same time. Just as in a typical family, some members of your soul group are closer and more familiar to you than other members. You may have chosen to incarnate many times with certain members of your soul group, therefore it is easier to recognize these soulmates from past lives, and you will be naturally drawn to them. Within the phenomenon of soul mates exist those known as twin flame soulmates, or twin souls. When you emerged from Source to individuate yourself, you were still whole. Each soul consisted of a male and female counterpart that formed a perfect union of light, hence the term . When souls sought to experience separation from Source in order to consciously know themselves as individuals, many souls also chose to split so they could have exponentially vaster and more challenging experiences. The other half of your soul is your twin flame or twin soul, and there is only one in the entire Universe, which may or may not choose to incarnate on Earth at the same time as you. You each left a little piece of yourself within the other, like the Yin/Yang symbol, and this is how you find each other. Once your soul individuated, it sought to have a variety of experiences in different forms and dimensions, and your twin soul also had individual choice as to whether to share these experiences or not. Along the sacred journey of soul mates, you have chosen to have incarnational experiences with many other souls, some of whom have been part of your soul group, or family of soul mates. Throughout eternity, you have sought to join together with your twin soul in order to be whole once again, but these reunions have ebbed and flowed through time and space. When your soul mate arrives, the physical feeling of twin souls is that of being magnetically drawn to one another. There is a sense of being intertwined, and of not wanting to be apart from each other. There is a sense that time together is precious and perhaps fleeting, so there is a desire to spend as much time as possible in each other's presence. There is often a feeling of peace and joy accompanied by a deep sorrow and longing to make up for separation in times past and times to come. In essence, there is a desire to drink each other in, and to bask in each other's energy. Spiritual twin flame souls have a natural spark of attraction for each other, but it may or may not be physically passionate. Twin souls desire to connect with each other physically in order to merge energy, so they desire to be physically close to one another. They long to hold and touch each other, and do not necessarily need more than that. Once they find each other, they desire to walk through a lifetime together hand- in- hand for as long as possible. When it comes to soul mate compatibility, there can be some challenges with twin flame soulmates. This is because they are so much alike that they can either get along perfectly and telepathically, or they can get on each other's nerves. They know each other intimately because they are indeed one, so if they get mad at each other, they know exactly how to hurt each other profoundly and with precision. Not only can this damage the relationship and the level of trust and intimacy between them, but twins often feel each other's pain, so to hurt the other is to hurt oneself. Therefore it is even more important to approach any disagreements with patience and with love and compassion. You can call forth your twin soul/twin flame by envisioning your light shining brightly into the cosmos. Affirm that you choose to be whole, complete and intact, and that you call forth all parts, aspects and fragments of yourself that exist throughout all dimensions in the Universe to be drawn to you in the here and now. Imagine a light like yours being irresistibly drawn to become one with you. Twin Souls: A Message of Hope for the New Millennium Aug 1, 2007 by Elizabeth Anne Hill Paperback $17.95 Prime Temporarily out of stock. Order now and we'll deliver when available. More Buying Choices $0.49 used & new (31 offers) 5 out of 5 stars 3 Books. Twin Flame Signs and Relationship Dynamics Throughout the course of your life you may have had unusual or powerful dreams, visions, or fantasies of a mysterious person. Twin Soul Relationships (Twin Flames) 'And when one of them meets with his other half, the actual half of himself, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight even for a moment.' Plato. The longing for our perfect mate is a need engraved in our DNA. We harbor a desire for restoration and unity, and search for the piece that is always missing. In our journey through life, the search continues for something that can't be readily found. It is a quest for wholeness. Twin flames, also called twin souls. Are literally the other half of our soul. We each have only one twin, and generally after being split the two went their separate ways, incarnating over and over to gather human experience before coming back. Keep in mind that there can be certain characteristics of twin souls that may be somewhat problematic when it comes to intimate relationships. First, you must remember that your twin soul has chosen to experience individual incarnations that have their own purpose. Therefore, your twin soul may have a mission and agenda that does not coincide with yours, and may not be on the same plane or dimension of time or space. Even if you do incarnate on Earth at the same time, you may not be compatible soul mates for reasons of gender, race, age, religion, location, etc. Your twin soul could incarnate as your child, your sister, your father, etc.; or there could be interfering or impossible circumstances where you are like Romeo and Juliet. Being able to have an intimate relationship in this lifetime with your twin soul involves hitting the center of the bullseye of incarnational target practice. Members of your soul group form the outer rings of the target surrounding the bullseye, with each ring representing a different level of soul mate compatibility and familiarity from past life soul mate connections. Encountering karmic soulmates is much easier, because there are many more of them. Seeking your twin flame involves looking for characteristics of twin souls that mirror and reflect your own, for you are one and the same. You have the power of choice. You are always responsible for the choices you make and the actions you take. This is a time when a person feels helpless. They are deeply unhappy with their lives, but feel powerless to make positive change. They feel lost, they feel confused, they feel angry and they can't see any light at the end of the tunnel. Some people have reported to go through this just before meeting their twin soul. Others say it happened upon meeting their twin soul and feeling like they are powerless to recapture the connection they experienced with them in times of separation. Through all the reflected insecurities we would swing back and forth between connecting and repelling each other. It was all happening so quickly and intensely and I couldn't handle it anymore. So I refused to see him for two years, trying to cut the ties, blast away all thoughts of him, find a new man etc to try and get my life . I went through a period of massive self- destruction because we had spent so long fighting and hurting each other that we ended up feeling like awful people. I couldn't believe I could be so cruel and was so ashamed of this side of myself that I had never even known existed. I punished myself by hating myself and would drink to suppress it all - the feelings for him, the feeling of helplessness, the fear of losing him, the MASSIVE fear of losing myself and becoming this horrible person. We had never wanted to cause each other pain deep down, but our . And we felt weak - we felt that our minds should be strong and that we shouldn't be controlled by this . We felt ridiculous by still feeling so strongly about each other after all the fighting and pain. Of course we didn't realize that it was necessary to experience all of this and that what we were feeling was UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. And because we are one, our pain we felt from each other and our own reactions to the intensity was magnified. My self- loathing made him feel self- loathing and vice- verse, my attempts to abandon him, made me feel like i was abandoning myself and him abandoning me made him feel like he was abandoning himself, but you must understand - WE COULDN'T HELP IT. Our minds and bodies were not nearly as ready as our souls were to reunite. I didn't know who I was anymore. I felt crazy for loving him, but I couldn't forget him. I couldn't live with him, couldn't live without him. But really it was, I couldn't accept my own insecurities brought up by his reflection, yet I couldn't deny them either (deny myself). I thought it would all just go away in time and I could get back to . I became numb - I shut my feelings down because i literally couldn't take it. I repressed myself so much that I became very depressed. The alcohol made it worse, but I had become addicted by then. I could see it in him too - he just looked like a ghost, which is how I felt too - empty inside, a dead person walking. I found myself doing hurtful things to myself just so i could FEEL again. But none of this was a . It was necessary for us both to feel rock bottom in order to be able to realize we could survive the deepest depths of despair and fear and that we were still OK. When I realized I couldn't take feeling this way anymore, I HAD to start listening to the signs sent from my spirit guide (I tried to deny their existence for a LONG time). I had to listen to the knowing feelings in my heart, the love I felt in my soul. I'd got to the point where I had no- where else to turn. I didn't want to die, but I didn't want to live this way either. I had reached the deepest depths and then realized I had no other choice but to ACCEPT this connection, whatever it was. It can't be any worse than this, surely? And from that moment onward, I felt so FREE. I rapidly began awakening to my spirituality and very soon afterwards discovered the term . It all made so much sense to me. Knowing that my twin soul and I are connected for eternity helped me release my fears immensely. My story is no exception - I hear of many who report they went through this . It is often necessary to hit rock bottom in order for twins to SURRENDER to their soul consciousness that is coming into awakening. Awakening occurs in perfect time and we, nor anyone or anything in the universe can prevent it. It just depends how long we are willing to live in the shadows of our egos and deny it all. The truth is though, that we cannot deny it forever. The time will come when we just have to go with it. Sometimes the pain has to become so great before we will accept this other way into the light. It will happen in perfect time for everyone. It will happen when the hard lessons of resistance have been learned and we are ready to move onto our true destinies of union with all things.
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